How to Be Married to an Extrovert

If you are an introvert you may wonder… how could I be married to an extrovert? So something that many couples may go through and may likely even break them is a wonderful topic and issue that my sexy ass hubs suggested I write about. Thanks for the idea babe! See I am an introvert. Steven is an extrovert. If you met us, you would think we were both extroverts. Most people have an inaccurate…

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How to Keep Trying

This journey so far has been difficult for Steven and me reliving some of this stuff. We come from very different worlds and have different ideas of how life happens. On my positive hand, I think that we were meant to find each other and help each other heal and grow into better human beings that are more and more enlightened each day. Then my negative hand slaps me in the face and says “dumb…

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The Other Woman

So the reason I named this post “The Other Woman” is because that is how I have always felt. Never thinking that I would be good enough, I treated myself like the other woman and lived up to that name. I did not set my standards high or my self-respect for that matter. And thus, every action I took only further pushed me into that role that I so hated. I did not respect myself…

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How Your Diet Affects Your Sex Life

What??? You mean what I eat can affect my sex drive??? Well for me it definitely does! I would imagine many of you can relate to feeling this way too! Many of us have heard about aphrodisiacs that supposedly increase your sex-drive? I personally have never tried any of those foods so I cannot say. According to the Insider it is all a bunch of balogne anyways. They also suggest that drinking coffee can cause…

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Why No One Will Ever Marry Me

Part of my beliefs about marriage and being a wife and my investment in the role I have had the pleasure of acquiring stems from my fear and insecurities….of course. I have always had an unrelenting fear or rather dread of the potential fate I felt was going to be my demise…that no one would ever marry me. I felt unlovable. I felt unworthy. I felt something was wrong with me. Hmmm why…you ask? Let…

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