What I Learned About Marriage From Bartending

As one of my first post on this site I want to begin by sharing some background information about my life experiences. These will likely be intermixed throughout. As you have possibly read, I am currently a therapist…you know a well-rounded, even keel, always express myself appropriately therapist…can you hear the sarcasm in my key-strokes? Well, I wasn’t always this optimistic about the concept of marriage. I was a bartender…at a smutty bar. Is that…

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Do You Feel Guilty About Your Life?

Sometimes I feel guilty about my life. As you’ve probably noticed I have not posted a lot lately. And that really doesn’t have much to do with the fact that I have a two month old now. I mean, for the most part she sleeps most of the day. One of the things I have been struggling with is what to write about. I feel like it’s good to write about your struggles on one…

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Is Your Mouth Affecting Your Marriage?

I have a bad habit that I’m trying to work on. It’s detrimental to my marriage and not fair to my husband. Oh you thought it was the wine? No no you can never have too much wine! Here it is… I talk to my mother about our problems. I know that sounds a bit silly at first glance but I’m breaking a cardinal rules of marriage 101. You don’t talk to your family about…

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Don’t Tell Me How It’s Going To Be

I feel like being a newlywed, as I suppose I’m still considered in the honeymoon phase based on peoples reactions and responses when I tell them how long I’ve been married, I feel like nobody takes me seriously. I feel like people think that I don’t know what I’m talking about and I feel like people undermine my thoughts and views on marriage. Is everyone that unhappy that they can’t accept that someone else is?…

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Counting My Blessings During the Covid-19 Crisis

I have to say that I am one of the lucky ones. Myself and my family have not been, at this point affected by the pandemic that has struck us this year. If anything, I am getting a break on some of my bills such as my student loans and our ADT system and getting free food! My heart goes out to those families who are affected and cannot keep their businesses afloat. I could…

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