Why We Should Focus on the Positives…But Not TOO Much

So often we humans focus on the negatives. I’m going to tell you why we should spend more time focusing on the positives…but not too much! Do you ever feel like you are bragging about your life? I mean is that not what we all do on social media all day long? Every time you post a picture of you smiling with your partner or check in at a fancy restaurant…what message are you sending?…

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Why My Husband Is My Hero

My husband…he is my hero in so many ways! As I pout and moan over the “big girl” shorts that I just bought not fitting. He always knows what to do. He enters the room all aggressive, puffed up, looking for a fight. He grabs the shorts out of my hand, and punches them to the ground and kicks them across the room. My hero. 😊🥰😚☺️ He always knows how to make me laugh when…

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How Much is too much TMI?

Do you have trouble figuring out how much TMI is too much??? One of the hardest things I struggle with as a wife is figuring out what is on the table and not on the table. And I don’t mean for dinner. I have always been an open book and at times to a fault. I often times come full force TMI whether it is with new friends, coworkers, or a first date. It took…

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My Struggle with Bulimia

Here I am sitting at the library with four books in front of me:–Midlife Eating Disorders-Shades of Hope: How to Treat Your Addiction to Food-Food Freedom Forever-What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape I am 10 minutes-ish post binge. As I walked into the library doors after dropping my bag of guilt in the trash can outside, I walked past the bathroom wondering if I should. Knowing that would make me feel worse…

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The Dread of Shorts

Do you dread trying your shorts on for the first time each spring like me??? It’s that wonderful time again…almost….the first time of the season where I put my shorts on…. I know it’s only March but I figured the sooner the better. Here is the golden question…. To lose weight and fit into my closet full of clothes worth thousands (because there are a lot of clothes I ain’t that fancy) or to buy…

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