Don’t Tell Me How It’s Going To Be

I feel like being a newlywed, as I suppose I’m still considered in the honeymoon phase based on peoples reactions and responses when I tell them how long I’ve been married, I feel like nobody takes me seriously. I feel like people think that I don’t know what I’m talking about and I feel like people undermine my thoughts and views on marriage. Is everyone that unhappy that they can’t accept that someone else is?…

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Why We Should Focus on the Positives…But Not TOO Much

So often we humans focus on the negatives. I’m going to tell you why we should spend more time focusing on the positives…but not too much! Do you ever feel like you are bragging about your life? I mean is that not what we all do on social media all day long? Every time you post a picture of you smiling with your partner or check in at a fancy restaurant…what message are you sending?…

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5 Powerful Reasons Farting Kills Your Marriage

A dear friend reminded me of this topic that I feel very strongly about and always have. I get a lot of slack for it but I don’t care. I am sticking to my beliefs and no one will change that. Sounds serious right? Well it is but it isn’t. I will give you 5 reasons not to fart in front of your husband. To fart or not to fart? That is the question here.…

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Why I’m NOT trying to have a baby…

SO I have an exciting idea! Super exciting news! Steven and I are having unprotected sex!  Hahaha I know that sounds so weird! I literally had a battle with my doctor about whether or not we were “trying to have a baby” that went a little something like this…. Me: “So I’d like to go off my birth control.” Doc: “Wonderful, so you are trying to have a baby?” Me: “Um, no we are just having sex…

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How Much is too much TMI?

Do you have trouble figuring out how much TMI is too much??? One of the hardest things I struggle with as a wife is figuring out what is on the table and not on the table. And I don’t mean for dinner. I have always been an open book and at times to a fault. I often times come full force TMI whether it is with new friends, coworkers, or a first date. It took…

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