Why We Should Focus on the Positives…But Not TOO Much

So often we humans focus on the negatives. I’m going to tell you why we should spend more time focusing on the positives…but not too much! Do you ever feel like you are bragging about your life? I mean is that not what we all do on social media all day long? Every time you post a picture of you smiling with your partner or check in at a fancy restaurant…what message are you sending?…

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5 Powerful Reasons Farting Kills Your Marriage

A dear friend reminded me of this topic that I feel very strongly about and always have. I get a lot of slack for it but I don’t care. I am sticking to my beliefs and no one will change that. Sounds serious right? Well it is but it isn’t. I will give you 5 reasons not to fart in front of your husband. To fart or not to fart? That is the question here.…

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Is Stalking Healthy?

You hear a ping while he’s in the shower and that urge creeps up. To look or not to look? Do I need to look? Should I look? What will I find it I look? What if I find something? What if I find nothing and then I’m an asshole? Will it will make me feel better? It will just confirm that there’s nothing going on. I am sure he looks at my phone. I…

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Are You Too Phony?

Sometimes this blog is really hard to write. As I sit here in tears over our argument I question sometimes why I write the things I do. Am I being fake? Am I too phony? Am I acting like everything‘s perfect when it’s not? Am I not putting enough real stuff out there? Sometimes it feels like when I write something whether I post it or not I’m jinxing our relationship because what follows is…

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Why My Husband Is My Hero

My husband…he is my hero in so many ways! As I pout and moan over the “big girl” shorts that I just bought not fitting. He always knows what to do. He enters the room all aggressive, puffed up, looking for a fight. He grabs the shorts out of my hand, and punches them to the ground and kicks them across the room. My hero. 😊🥰😚☺️ He always knows how to make me laugh when…

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