The First Trimester

I have been quiet for a while. I have been wanting to clear my head and calm my emotions before I write anything as I always have. I say I always want to, that doesn’t mean that it always goes as planned. I am about halfway through my pregnancy and now that I’m feeling better I wanted to write a bit about it. As with most of my blogging, my purpose in this is to…

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Why Pregnancy is So Invalidating

This post is about 2 things. Being a therapist and being a Mother 2 Be. First and foremost…. being a therapist, in some ways is a life ruiner. Especially my specialty of DBT(Dialectical Behavior Therapy) which is heavily doused with Validation!!!!! Having been so heavily trained in validation has made me a little bitch. A little bitch with high ass expectations and a lack of reciprocation. I have the same issues as a massage therapist…

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How Granny Panties Will Ruin Your Marriage

It started off as an accident….. that has turned deadly. I needed new underwear. My ass kept getting fatter and with that my underwear were becoming increasingly snug. I knew it was time for some new panties. I had bought some boy shorts for sleepy time long ago from Walmart…yes I do buy Walmart undies. They were perfect. Just the right amount of coverage to be comfortable and just the right amount of booty cheeks…

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When to Let Go of Friendships

When to let go of friendships is a very hard question for me to answer. I’ve been feeling very lonely lately. This is very hard for me to write, hard for me to be vulnerable. I love my husband with all of my heart. He is my very best friend and maybe I need to accept that that is enough. I don’t know. As an adult, I have always been someone who had a lot…

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Why We Need to Stop Laughing About Food

Food is the most difficult drug habit to kick! We have to eat! We cannot run from it we cannot hide from it. Try and tell an alcoholic that they can only have 1 shot of booze 3xs a day for the rest of their lives while they are surrounded by booze at every turn! While they drive past Mcboozles and Brandy Queen twice a day on their way to work trying not to stop…

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