How to See the Good In Yourself

Seeing the good in myself has always been difficult for me. I have been encouraged to talk about some of the good things in my life rather than all of the negative things as is probably a good follow up to my last posting. I too feel that in life in general we often focus on the negative things whether it be every day life, the news, or our relationships.  I went to the annual…

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My #MeToo Story

Trigger Warning: This is a #METOO story and thus I encourage you to read with caution or avoid it all together if you think it may be hard for you. So I have been toying with the nerve to post this for some time now. My husband really struggles with it as it is obviously hard for him to think about happening to me. I’m sure it would be for anyone very close to me.…

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How to Find a Husband

There are many articles out there that make people shudder due to the way they are promoted and advertised. Some with pictures and some with derogatory demands and assumptions of women and/or wives. I feel that people often immediately get offended by these messages as I myself have done as well. But I made myself look into it further as I ask of you. What is the message they are really sending? What is it…

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Does Happiness Make You Depressed?

Does being happy and becoming too comfortable lead us into a depression? Who are we becoming? Early in our relationship this is never ever something we would have seen. Steven and I have always been people who do not leave things undone. Well, him much more than me. We don’t leave dishes in the sink at bed time. We don’t do laundry without putting it away. We don’t go to bed with shit all over…

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Why We Should Focus on the Positives…But Not TOO Much

So often we humans focus on the negatives. I’m going to tell you why we should spend more time focusing on the positives…but not too much! Do you ever feel like you are bragging about your life? I mean is that not what we all do on social media all day long? Every time you post a picture of you smiling with your partner or check in at a fancy restaurant…what message are you sending?…

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