How To Use Your Husband for Fitness Motivation

If you know me well at all in life you know that I LOVE food and I also HATE food. Right now I am on the struggle bus with myself. I have reached a whopping 200 lbs for the first time in my life.  I am always looking for new motivations and my husband is one of them. We as women all know it is hard to do anything for yourself, but usually that comes…

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How Not to Argue

Wednesday, November 23 I have broken my vows multiple times already, see this is what this blog is helping me do, keep myself accountable. I have said that this is not just a forum for me to pretend that just because I am a therapist and have had some experience counseling couples or because I have been married one month and one day, that I have any room to advise others. I am here for…

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What is it like to be married to YOU?

Uhhh what is it like to be married to me? As I am sitting here annoyed….I am trying to have empathy. Empathy for my husband. I don’t like the way he expressed himself and I find myself getting stuck on that…because ya know the therapist in me has these super high expectations that not even I can achieve…that there is a certain way to express yourself in a way that does not damage the relationship…

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